What Do You Have to Offer in a Relationship

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09-08-2011, 10:51 AM

a serious question. what exercise yous accept as a person that would make you desirable or would make yous a good catch? i would say that i'grand willing to offering myself. the proficient, the bad and the ugly. you lot're only gonna go me. maybe it'south just me but i've noticed that some people aren't geniune about the feelings they show towards their other in a relationship. information technology seems similar they're acting out their feelings where they'll exit their mode to testify how much they dearest somebody when all they only need to do is only be themselves. but so again, i've never been in a relationship before or anything relating to that then i wouldn't know how to do one or how to love so to speak. i don't think that i'yard prepare for a relationship either. that doesn't mean that i want to do quick hookups, i night stands, sleep around, be a manwhore, etc. i desire a relationship. Final edited by the nation is nevertheless angry; 09-08-2011 at 11:19 AM..

09-08-2011, x:58 AM

recuerdeme 1,979 posts, read 4,014,473 times Reputation: 1777

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09-08-2011, 11:00 AM

Amelie90 xiv,082 posts, read 15,100,353 times Reputation: 17595

Quote: Originally Posted by the nation is still aroused a serious question. what do you have equally a person that would make you desirable or would make you a good catch? Hmm, I'thou not really ane to toot my own horn, simply since you asked: -I'm bonny and in shape -I tin can hold an intelligent conversation, only I have a good sense of humor and similar to be silly sometimes also -I have a good job, proficient credit, and I'm financially stable -I accept no children and no ex-husbands/bfs lurking around -I'm loyal and not into game playing -I'thousand healthy and don't take any STDs -I'm non into drinking, smoking, or drugs -I'chiliad a homebody and not into partying, then I'yard not going to put any female person friends before my pregnant other -I have a good relationship with my parents, so no "daddy issues" or anything like that I gauge I'll stop there. Geez, why the heck am I single??

09-08-2011, 11:00 AM

JustJulia Location: The Hall of Justice 25,906 posts, read 40,051,158 times Reputation: 42668

I'd hesitate to utilize the word deserve because a relationship involves two people, and no matter how skilful someone might be, everybody else's right of cocky-determination trumps that. People are not things to be caused--things that other people deserve or accept a right to accept. Nobody is owed a relationship. I'm not a fan of telling people they deserve anything, but that's my opinion. Request people what they contribute to a relationship, though, is dissimilar. I detect that you did not respond your own question.

09-08-2011, xi:12 AM

Braunwyn 19,059 posts, read 23,814,317 times Reputation: 13469

Quote: Originally Posted by JustJulia I'd hesitate to use the word deserve because a relationship involves two people, and no matter how good someone might exist, everybody else's right of self-conclusion trumps that. People are non things to be acquired--things that other people deserve or have a correct to have. Nobody is owed a human relationship. Well stated. Quote: I'm not a fan of telling people they deserve anything, but that's my opinion. Asking people what they contribute to a relationship, though, is different. Isn't in that location a thread already addressing this that you lot started? Possibly they should exist merged.

09-08-2011, eleven:17 AM

JustJulia Location: The Hall of Justice 25,906 posts, read twoscore,051,158 times Reputation: 42668

Quote: Originally Posted by Braunwyn Isn't there a thread already addressing this that you started? Perhaps they should be merged. That I started? Information technology's not ringing a bell, but I'll grant you that I don't retrieve everything I've ever posted. Or were you talking to the OP?

09-08-2011, 11:21 AM

Quote: Originally Posted by JustJulia I'd hesitate to employ the word deserve because a relationship involves two people, and no matter how adept someone might be, everybody else's right of self-conclusion trumps that. People are non things to be acquired--things that other people deserve or have a correct to take. Nobody is owed a human relationship. I'm not a fan of telling people they deserve anything, but that's my opinion. Request people what they contribute to a relationship, though, is dissimilar. I notice that you did not answer your own question. i didn't mean deserve like that. probably should accept used a unlike give-and-take. why then serious? and i did respond my ain question. i said i accept myself to bring to the table.

09-08-2011, 11:23 AM

Location: Centre of the valley 42,926 posts, read 28,026,973 times Reputation: 62017

Quote: Originally Posted past the nation is still angry and i did reply my own question. i said i accept myself to bring to the table. Everyone has that.

09-08-2011, eleven:33 AM

Johnny Vanderburgh Location: Non Nowhere i,321 posts, read 1,972,290 times Reputation: 1752

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09-08-2011, 11:37 AM

Quote: Originally Posted by Mikala43 Everyone has that. i hateful as all the aspects of myself. you'll encounter information technology. a lot of people are scared to show certain sides of themselves considering they'll scare the person they're interested in abroad. a lot of guys outthere alive relationships through their representatives. they'll be in a relationship with their daughter playing a sure graphic symbol, scared to bring their girls to their friend, their family, lying about whatever and then plough around and take a bunch of girls on their phone that they're creeping and cheating on her with. i think that's non bringing yourself to the table. i would much rather someone see what i do, how i live my life, and how i get downwardly rather than hibernate it and have them get disappointed when they find out something about me that i didn't tell them.

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